Anal Cancer Supportive Care
Cheeky Charity

Cancer treatment can be challenging physically, emotionally, and socially, and these challenges may be intensified for members of the LGBTQ+ community, who often encounter additional barriers in traditional healthcare settings. Supportive care focuses on managing treatment side effects, enhancing comfort, and addressing each person’s unique needs with respect to their identity, relationships, and community.

Our goal is to help you manage side effects, improve your quality of life, and find strength in affirming support as you navigate treatment.

Practical Tips for Managing Physical Side Effects

Cancer treatment affects each person differently, and it’s important to find strategies that work best for your body and your lifestyle.

Pain Management

Pain from cancer treatment can stem from the cancer itself, surgery, radiation, or other therapies. Speak openly with your healthcare team about pain management options, including medications, physical therapy, and complementary approaches like acupuncture or massage. Pain isn’t something you have to endure alone, and finding the right treatments can greatly improve your quality of life.

♥︎ Remember, you deserve comfort and relief. Pain can impact your mood and sense of control, so prioritize speaking up about it. No pain is too small to mention.

Bowel and Bladder Health

Treatments like radiation can affect normal bowel and bladder function, causing symptoms like incontinence, diarrhea, and urinary frequency. Consider keeping a symptom diary to track triggers and discuss options with your healthcare provider. Dietary adjustments, pelvic floor exercises, and medications can help manage these side effects, and consulting with a dietitian can provide personalized guidance.

♥︎ Bowel and bladder issues can feel isolating and embarrassing, but they’re a common part of treatment. Allow yourself grace and patience as you work through them, and know that you’re not alone.

Managing Skin Irritation

Radiation may cause skin irritation, especially in sensitive areas, which can make it uncomfortable to sit or wear certain clothing. Use gentle, fragrance-free cleansers and moisturizers on affected areas, avoid tight clothing, and sit on cushions that relieve pressure. Your healthcare team can recommend specific creams or dressings for skin protection as it heals.

♥︎ Skin reactions are a visible reminder of the treatment journey and can feel discouraging. Let yourself feel whatever emotions come up — frustration, sadness, or even a sense of loss. Caring for yourself with gentleness and patience can be a powerful act of self-compassion.

Fatigue and Energy Conservation

Cancer-related fatigue can be overwhelming, often feeling unrelenting, even after rest. Balance activity and rest, and consider asking for help with tasks. Light exercises, such as stretching or short walks, can boost energy, and nourishing your body with balanced meals and hydration is essential.

♥︎ Fatigue can impact your sense of self and productivity. Give yourself permission to slow down. Fatigue doesn’t define your worth, and it’s okay to let go of the need to be “productive” while you heal.

Nurturing Emotional and Social Health

Cancer affects more than just the body; it touches your emotions, relationships, and sense of self. For LGBTQ+ individuals, this journey can involve unique challenges tied to identity, community, and stigma. Supportive spaces that validate these experiences can make a world of difference.

Finding LGBTQ+-Affirming Healthcare and Mental Health Support

Feeling safe and respected is essential in healthcare, especially for LGBTQ+ individuals. Seek out LGBTQ+-friendly healthcare providers, support groups, or mental health professionals who specialize in LGBTQ+ care. Online directories and resources can help you connect with affirming providers, and if in-person support isn’t available, virtual therapy or support groups can be valuable.

♥︎ If you’ve felt unseen or misunderstood by healthcare providers, your feelings are valid. Building trust with your healthcare team can be challenging, but you deserve care that respects all aspects of your identity.

Navigating Changes in Sexual Health and Intimacy

Cancer treatment can impact sexual health, which may be difficult to navigate, especially if LGBTQ+ relationships or bodies are misunderstood by traditional providers. Physical changes, such as discomfort or reduced libido, can affect how you relate to your body and partners.

  • Strategies: Consider seeing a sexual health therapist or pelvic floor therapist experienced in LGBTQ+ issues. Open conversations with partners about intimacy, needs, and comfort levels can foster closeness and understanding. Experimenting with lubricants or non-irritating moisturizers may also improve comfort.

♥︎ Changes in sexual health and intimacy may stir feelings of vulnerability, grief, or frustration. It’s okay to grieve these changes, and it’s okay to seek joy and connection in new ways. Your body’s worth and beauty are not defined by these challenges.

Finding Community and Connection

A cancer diagnosis can feel isolating, particularly for those already marginalized. Connecting with others who understand your experience provides emotional relief, support, and solidarity.

  • Strategies: Cheeky Charity offers LGBTQ+-focused cancer support groups both online and in person. These groups provide a welcoming environment to share feelings, learn from others, and connect with people who understand your health journey and identity. Whether you’re newly diagnosed, in treatment, or navigating life after treatment, Cheeky Charity’s online space offers resources, guidance, and connections with others who understand what you’re going through.

♥︎ Isolation can be incredibly difficult, especially when it’s layered with the complexities of identity. Remind yourself that you are part of a resilient community, and there are people who want to support you and share your journey.

Honoring Your Feelings

Cancer is life-changing, and it’s natural to experience a wide range of emotions—from anger and grief to hope and resilience. For LGBTQ+ individuals, this journey can intersect with past experiences of discrimination or invisibility, adding unique layers to the experience. Recognizing and honoring these emotional layers is part of healing.

  • Strategies: Journaling, meditation, or creative outlets can offer emotional release and self-discovery. Some people find comfort in documenting their journey or sharing with friends, family, or support groups. Therapy with a provider who understands LGBTQ+ experiences can also provide tools for managing complex emotions.

♥︎ It’s okay to feel deeply. Every emotion you experience is a valid part of this journey. Allow yourself to feel fully without judgment—you are walking this path with courage.

Supportive care is more than symptom management—it’s about honoring your body, affirming your identity, and finding ways to live well throughout treatment. For LGBTQ+ individuals, supportive care may mean creating a network of allies, finding spaces that honor every part of your identity, and giving yourself permission to seek joy, comfort, and belonging along the way.

Remember, you’re not alone. There is a community ready to walk with you, honor you, and help you find strength and comfort. Reach out for help when needed, and surround yourself with people and resources that make you feel seen, heard, and valued. With compassionate, affirming care, you can find resilience and hope in this journey.